Bits of Life: High Expectancy

I've never liked those happy ending movies/tv series where the pretty girl is an outcast but noticed by the hottie. It's unrealistic and gives bad imaginations for young girls. No badass rich hunk genius will be a sweetheart who would chase you down and climb your insanely tall house just to say "I love you forever" and will not take a notice on a Victoria's Secret model. There will be a flaw in every guy you will meet, you would just have to go pass those flaws and focus on the great things he has.

A guy can be great of course, but they will not be exactly you'd see from twilight, notebook, dear john, juliet, and all those unrealistic romance movies. Stop wishing and making a list of what you want in a guy from movies, they will never exist other than in your dreams and movies. Movies and TV series gives a lot of hopes to young girls to build a list that cannot be meet. From this high expectancy, a girl will never be satisfied of the guy she is with or crushing on her, thus she will always feel like she is alone and there is no good guys out there, when maybe a great guy could be standing right in front of her.

Prince charming does exist, but only in the eyes of those who sees it that way. How? by him having the things that you love about AND you accepting and going past his flaws too. The ones that may seems perfect without flaws may be more deceiving until they start revealing their true self, and this goes to both guys and girls. 

You can have a type, but not so much that it becomes an unrealistic walking list.

Quick Tips for Everything: Benefits of cooking yourself

Sometimes we love eating out because we deserve that break from the hustlin n bustlin that we do all day. But sometimes we also think about what goes in to our body. Well when in doubt, cook your own meal. Why? Cooking your own meal reassures yourself on what will go inside your body and how it is cooked (or made if it was a drink). Not only that, you would also be eating the portion you think is right until you're full (unless you're totally ok with leaving lots of leftovers). By cooking yourself, you would know the exact amount and the ingredients used for your meal, also you would know that your drinks aren't made with any ingredients that you may not want. You can even play around with the ingredients and mix whatever you want to try, just be creative. 

You can also impress the girl/guy you're serving meal for before, during, and after cooking. Who knows what they would give in return for your home cooked meal ;)

Bits of Life: Say Cheese!

These days there are many bloggers in any kind of social blogging media who loves to share their outfits of the day. I love following enormous amount of fashion bloggers on Instagram because i'm more of picture person than a long paragraph. Now that being said, there are so many girls who posts their pictures without a smile. Why? Is it because media always have cover spread where women are never smiling unless they are in a teen magazine or health magazine cover? Is it because these girls want to look "sophisticated" and "cool"?

I used to take pictures without smiling, instead I did the pout kind of thing with my lips, not duck face by the way. My mum started to notice and told me off by telling me that I look mean and snobby. Of course as a trying-to-rebel kind of teen I was, I thought she was just being silly to say that to me. So I started to smile with my teeth showing in front of my mum, and gradually I realized that I was the one being silly to think my mum was silly to say that. She was right, I looked prettier and more genuine. Since then I've always smiled or make silly face on cameras.

Not in any kind of attraction way, I think when girls are smiling they look very pretty, especially when the smile is not completely made up. To me a real smile comes from the eyes and the heart. How? Think of something that makes you smile, anything would do. This isn't just my opinion, it's also from many guys I know. They have told me when they actually look for a girl to talk to, the first thing they see is their smile.

I'll be honest, I follow certain people on Instagram and yes the smiling thing is one of the factors why I follow most of them. I guess you could say that I think when someone have so many followers and wears beautiful garments, yet putting no smile makes me think that they're too good for everything and everyone. This is just an opinion of mine.