Bits of Life: High Expectancy

I've never liked those happy ending movies/tv series where the pretty girl is an outcast but noticed by the hottie. It's unrealistic and gives bad imaginations for young girls. No badass rich hunk genius will be a sweetheart who would chase you down and climb your insanely tall house just to say "I love you forever" and will not take a notice on a Victoria's Secret model. There will be a flaw in every guy you will meet, you would just have to go pass those flaws and focus on the great things he has.

A guy can be great of course, but they will not be exactly you'd see from twilight, notebook, dear john, juliet, and all those unrealistic romance movies. Stop wishing and making a list of what you want in a guy from movies, they will never exist other than in your dreams and movies. Movies and TV series gives a lot of hopes to young girls to build a list that cannot be meet. From this high expectancy, a girl will never be satisfied of the guy she is with or crushing on her, thus she will always feel like she is alone and there is no good guys out there, when maybe a great guy could be standing right in front of her.

Prince charming does exist, but only in the eyes of those who sees it that way. How? by him having the things that you love about AND you accepting and going past his flaws too. The ones that may seems perfect without flaws may be more deceiving until they start revealing their true self, and this goes to both guys and girls. 

You can have a type, but not so much that it becomes an unrealistic walking list.

Bits of Life: is someone there?

There was a time when life seemed so amazing that everyday was filled with joy and hope. Nobody saw what was coming until a tragedy struck. A tragedy that broke the heart of those who cares. Fate that few expected to happen was never fulfilled.

It's always hard to see someone in pain, but it's worse when there is nothing you can do to help but only try to cheer them up instead. For those who have had such tragedy, depending on how lucky they are may find or know someone else who knows exactly how they feel. Unfortunately, those who do not know anyone with an experience as painful as they had may find more trouble to ease themselves from all the emotion.

People with a mind of devastation only want to be companied by those who care for them and will ask nothing in return. They want to feel sheltered and secure just so they won't make any desperate actions that would ruin them. Such desperate actions can be something small that wont affect their life to something that would make them change into a different person. These troubled minded people can seem to be the happiest or the quietest only to hide their real feelings. 

If only everyone in this world is as caring and understanding as how we all wish to be.