Bits of Life: Be in their shoes before stepping on their foot!

A real friend would never second thought a friend in need, but what happen when its becoming more of you to be the one who helps every time?

A real friend is hard to find now a days. Some even disguises as one just to take advantage from being a friend. Everyone whose intentions in life are good would never even think twice of take advantage of another person just to get through something. They would find a cleaner and better way instead. 

Honestly, there are no comparison of what a real friend is. A real friend is not like anything else, it isn't a bra, or diamond, or whatever people make a metaphor of. A real friend can come in different shapes and sizes. They could even be hot inside and cold out or vice versa. A real friend to you may not seem to be a real friend to me, simply because everyone is different in their approach and personality. There is no right or wrong in a real friend. 

A prostitute can be a great mother, wife, and friend, who feels that sex is just a sport. A suicidal can be a great listener to those who comes to them, even though they do not love themselves. They would listen because they could relate to the person who is ranting to them, and i'm talking about an anonymous suicidal, not those who post depressed pictures on their social network. An evil person would solemnly protect their loved ones, they would even kill. I'm not saying that murder is acceptable, but believe it or not, some people turned out evil out of vengeance, anger, and even sadness. It isn't right, but it's like a reason why a girl become "cold hearted" after so many break up and/or betrayals. 

My point is, in this unfair way of life, people are forced to do something they may not want to do just to get somewhere, but it doesn't mean they are an overall bad person. You may find someone who you could trust from day one, or gradually, or even after a heated fight. No matter what anyone do to you, all you could do is be the best of friend you can be whether or not they are to you now or in the end. You'll never know why some people do what they do, and that's exactly why you shouldn't bash someone for a reason they do thing that you do not know of.